"I know you are a feminist, but you have no idea what females want."
Date: 8/26/2012 4:46:00 AM
Yes madam, I have no clue what anyone wants – not just the females. I either totally lack empathy or am too full of myself to exercise it – even to listen to what someone is saying I need to keep repeating it in my head, else I am off on a tangent, free association runs wild in my head. Oh wait, coming back now.
From where I see, the world is made up of individuals – and each of them have their own wants, desires whatevers. But I refuse to believe that you can club them under two heads – male wants and female wants. I refuse to believe that a lady wants to be provided for, showered with gifts and a man wants to be the provider. And if that is how this world is designed, I refuse to inherit this code – go back to the requirements gathering stage and fucking redesign the world.
Plus I refuse to believe that a relationship is about marking territory, about owning the other person. Ok, I have run out of steam quicker than I expected. Time for some ghazal: